confidence

confidence is the key essential substance to keep our from lookin down on the ground when we walk, it is the quality a man should have to persue, and it is the character developed not by his sucess/ intelligence but his faith - his faith with God.

it is an extremely difficult substance to deal with. too much or too little will cause harm, tremedous harm possible.

li nanxing acted a role in jia zai da ba yao. he is portrayed as a person with low self-esteem who prefer no changes in life. his wish is to be a civil servant, for the iron rice bowl. he holds a MBA and yet dun think he's good enough for any thing. so he chooses to be a taxi driver. his wife is performing well in her career and because of this, it sparks off his inferior complex and ask for a split. oh man,.. his wife loves him but he ruin the relationship just because he dun think he is good enough for his wife to love him.

well.. i cannot really relate to a case whereby there's a person who is ruin by his confidence... okay.. here's one.

romance of three kingdoms. cao cao is confident in his own judgement and intelligence. however, in chi bi zhi zhan, erm.. ok wait.. dun think it's a good example. forget it.

guess confidence is generally good. even if you are too confident and becomes detestable... erm.. you will actually feel happy with yourself, erm.. or even a bit narcisscist, that people's views upon you aren't hurting you...

but for christians, i must say our confidence must come from God. erm.. dun know to expound on this.. but this is what i believe and working on... ~